has anybody gotten over their Pacific Rim feels yet?
'cause I haven't
actually fuckin support them
do not hold them to higher standards than you would skinny girls
reblog their selfies
post clothes that might actually come in their sizes
reblog tips on how to deal with chub rub
give advice on how to cut fatphobic people out of your life
remind fat girls that they are fuckin beautiful and that they don’t need to be hyper-feminine or hyper-fashionable to be beautiful
tell fat girls that you care about them
tell fat girls that they are cute, and not “cute for a fat girl” or “cute cause they look like they lost weight”.
I am officially the heaviest I’ve ever been.
and despite really being frustrated with my body and fighting a lot of self loathing because of where I am, I’m also the happiest with my body that I’ve ever been.
positive reinforcement, love from a great guy, and a heavy dash of maturity really do help.
now to work on getting myself healthy again.